Loving My Husband: How To Keep The Fire Burning

Loving My Husband

A loving relationship is made when two committed people are willing to work on themselves, and their relationship. We all know that marriage has its ups and downs, and sparks can certainly fly at times, but a good relationship will flourish when it is given time, effort and consistency.


Knowing what lights your husband up can give you confidence that you are playing your part in the relationship. In this article, we’ll break down how women can love their husbands and keep the fire burning in the relationship.


Respect your Man

One of the first things you need to do to love your husband is to understand that men and women are inherently different. We view the world differently and want different things from a relationship. It’s essential to keep this in mind when trying to love your husband. You can’t expect him to think or behave the way you do – he’s not wired that way.


While women want love from a relationship, most men crave respect. So if you can start respecting your husband for who he is and what he does, then you’re already on the right track.


Believe In Your Man

Another thing you need to do to love your husband is to believe in your man. Many women have a hard time doing this, especially if their husband isn’t the perfect provider or protector. It’s important to remember that we’re all human, and we all make mistakes. If you can’t believe in your man, then who will?


When you believe in your husband, you’re telling him that you have faith in him and that you support him. This is a crucial factor in any relationship and will help to keep the fire burning.


Brag About Them To Others

If we’re honest we all love it when people say nice things about us. If you want to show your husband that you love him then learn to brag about him to others. This might sound strange, but it’s actually a very effective way to show your man how much you care.


When you brag about your husband, you’re telling others what a great guy he is and how lucky you are to have him. You’re also reinforcing the idea that he’s the man you want to be with. This not only makes your husband feel good, but it also makes him feel important and appreciated. It’s a great way to build him up.


Dream Together

Do you share your goals, aspirations, and dreams with your husband? If not, you should start doing that. When you share your dreams with your husband, you can begin to create plans for your future life together as a couple. This process also allows you to get his feedback and opinions, influencing decisions you make together in the future and creating a realistic vision of what you want out of life.


Dreaming together is a great way to connect with your husband, and give you something to look forwards to in the future. it also shows that you’re invested in the relationship. It can help to strengthen the bond between you both and create a lasting connection.


Make Sex A Priority

Sex is an important part of a healthy relationship and men feel deeply loved when they are being sexually intimate with their wives. Unfortunately, many couples tend to let their sex life fall by the wayside as time goes on. This can be due to many different reasons, such as stress from work, raising kids, or simply not prioritizing it. However, if you want to keep the passion alive in your relationship, then sex needs to be valued and prioritized.


Schedule regular sex dates, make time for intimacy, and spice things up in the bedroom. The bond that is formed when sex is regular will keep the romance alive in your relationship.


Create Time For Your Partner

With work, kids, and other activities, it can be hard to find time for your partner. However, making time for your partner is crucial to any relationship. Being present, getting rid of distractions and making the effort to connect with your partner regularly tells them that they are important to you.


This can be anything from going out for dinner or a movie, taking a walk, or simply sitting down and talking. By making time for your partner, you’re telling them that you want to be with them. It’s a simple way to show your love, and it goes a long way.


Show Them Affection

While some people are very tactile and love to be hugged and touched, others aren’t as touchy-feely. However, that doesn’t mean that they don’t appreciate physical affection. In fact, all humans need physical contact to some degree in order to feel loved and connected.


If your husband is one of those people who aren’t as cuddly, you need to find other ways to show him your love. This might include kissing him on the cheek, sending him a text message, or simply telling him that you love him. By showing your husband that you care about him, you keep playfulness and affection alive in your marriage.


Have Confidence In Your Body

One of the biggest obstacles to having a great sex life is feeling self-conscious about your body. If you’re not confident in your body, it’s going to be hard to let go and enjoy yourself.


However, if you can learn to love your body, you’ll find that your sex life improves dramatically. Of course, this doesn’t mean that you have to be happy with every aspect of your body, but you should at least accept yourself for who you are.


When you’re confident in your body, you’ll feel more comfortable being naked around your husband, and you’ll be less likely to turn down opportunities. You’ll also find that you enjoy yourself more and that you’re more secure in other areas of your life and relationship as well.


Go On Dates

While it might seem old-fashioned, going on dates is still one of the best ways to show your partner that you care about them. By taking your husband out on a date, you’re telling him that he’s important to you and that you want to spend time with him.


There are many ways to fit in a date night, such as cooking dinner together, going out for a movie, or even trying a new activity together. Whatever it is, take the time to show your significant other that they’re special to you, and ensure that there are no distractions on the date, such as pets or kids, so that you can really focus on loving and romancing your man.


Spend Time Doing Activities He Enjoys Too

While you might not enjoy playing golf or watching football, that doesn’t mean that your husband doesn’t. If you want to know what your husband loves, you need to find out what your husband enjoys and do those activities with him.


This could be anything from watching a big game to playing pool at a bar or having a BBQ. By spending time doing the things that he enjoys, you’re not only showing him that you care about him, but you’re also giving him an opportunity to spend time with you. Plus, it’s a great way to learn more about your husband and what makes him tick.


Show Gratitude

When things get tough in a relationship, it’s easy to focus on the negative and forget about all of the good that’s happening. This can lead to resentment and a feeling of being taken for granted.


It’s so easy to fall into the negative trap and become critical instead of encouraging. If you want to maintain a healthy and happy relationship, you need to remember to focus on the good and show gratitude for the things your partner does do for you. This includes everything from making dinner to taking out the trash.


When you show gratitude, you’re letting your partner know that you appreciate them and that you value their efforts. This can go a long way in keeping the love alive in your relationship.


Be Spontaneous

While it’s essential to have a schedule and stick to some routine in your relationship, you also need to be spontaneous. This could mean surprising your husband with tickets to a concert or taking a last-minute trip.


Being spontaneous keeps things exciting and prevents the relationship from becoming stale. It also lets your partner know that you’re thinking of them and that you’re willing to do whatever it takes to make them happy.


Ask Him What He Needs

One of the best ways to keep the romance alive in your relationship is to ask your husband what he needs. This could be anything from more time together to less stress at work.


By listening to your husband and trying to meet his needs, you’re letting him know that you care about him and that you want to make him happy. Meeting each other’s needs is essential to a healthy marriage.


Join Our Unbreakable Lovers Private Group For More Support

If loving your husband seems like a daunting task, don’t worry – we’re here to help. Join our Unbreakable Lovers private group for more support and advice from other women in a similar situation. You can also find helpful tips and tricks on how to keep your relationship strong and healthy. Browse our website today to find the resources you need to keep the passion alive in your relationship.

About the Author

Fiona Leeworthy

Fiona is a Counsellor & Family Therapist (MCouns, GradDip Psycho, AdvDipFamTherapy and her husband Rick is a businessman, speaker and mentor. Together they share a passion to help couples build strong & healthy relationships in the midst of a busy life.

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