10 Ways To Recreate The Honeymoon Phase In Your Relationship

When you first fall in love, everything is new and exciting. The world is your oyster, and you can’t get enough of each other. You’re always looking for ways to keep that honeymoon phase in your relationship. But as time passes, it becomes harder to keep the spark alive. 

According to studies, after 30 months, 14% of men and 10% of women appeared to be in the honeymoon stage, followed by a steep decline in marital happiness.

Imagine being able to bring back those honeymoon feelings and have them last forever. It may sound impossible, but it is possible to recreate the honeymoon phase in your relationship. 

This blog post will explore ways to bring back the honeymoon phase in your relationship. And by the end of this post, you will know how to keep the spark alive forever. 

Honeymoon Phase: Is It Real?

The honeymoon phase is the initial period of a relationship when everything seems perfect. You can’t get enough of each other, and you’re always looking for ways to please each other. But as time goes by, reality sets in, and you realise that your partner is not perfect. And that’s when the honeymoon phase ends. 

But just because the honeymoon phase ends doesn’t mean your relationship has to end. In fact, according to studies, couples who maintained their love and intimacy after the honeymoon phase were more likely to have a happy and successful marriage. 

Most couples tend to lose the spark in their relationship after the honeymoon phase because they stop putting in the effort. They get complacent and take their partner for granted. And that’s when problems start to arise. 

Let’s take a closer look. 

Signs Your Honeymoon Phase Is Over

  1. You don’t feel the need to impress each other anymore.
  2. You’re no longer afraid of being yourself around your partner.
  3. You don’t go out of your way to please each other anymore.
  4. You take each other for granted.
  5. You don’t make an effort to look good for each other anymore.
  6. You don’t make an effort to spend quality time together anymore.
  7. You start fights over petty things.
  8. You withdraw from your partner emotionally.
  9. You stop doing the little things that used to make your partner happy. 

If you can relate to any of the above signs, then it’s likely that the honeymoon phase is over for you. But don’t worry; there are ways to bring back the spark in your relationship. 

10 Ways to Recreate the Honeymoon Phase in Your Relationship

  • Plan regular date nights

Remember that favourite restaurant you and your partner always go to every Friday? Let’s say you’ve been together for a year now, and you’ve fallen into a relationship rut. You no longer feel the need to dress up or make an effort to look good for each other. Date nights have become a thing of the past. 

One way to bring back the spark in your relationship is to plan regular date nights. Whether it’s once a week or once a month, set aside some time where you can go out and enjoy each other’s company. Attempt to dress up and look your best, and most importantly, don’t let anything else impede your quality time together. 

  • Flirt with each other

Flirting is one of the key ingredients of a happy and successful relationship. The problem is, most couples stop flirting with each other after the honeymoon phase. If you want to bring back the spark in your relationship, start flirting with your partner again. 

It’s easy to flirt with each other; you just need to be playful and fun. Tease each other, crack jokes, and make sure your body language is open and inviting. And when you’re not together, send flirty text messages or leave little love notes for each other. 

  • Be more physically affectionate.

Most couples tend to become less physically affectionate as time goes by. They no longer hold hands in public or cuddle with each other on the couch. But studies have shown that physical touch is essential for a long-lasting relationship. However, when it comes to relationships, it’s not just about sex. 

Make an effort to be more physically affectionate with your partner. Hold hands when you’re out and about, give each other a hug or kiss whenever you can, cuddle while watching TV, and so on. This will help bring back the intimacy in your relationship. 

  • Communicate effectively

One of the most important aspects of any relationship is communication. Start communicating effectively with your partner if you want to recreate the honeymoon phase in your relationship. 

Make sure you’re both on the same page regarding important decisions. Have regular conversations about your relationship goals and where you see things going. If something is bothering you, don’t bottle it up; talk to your partner about it. And always be respectful when communicating with each other. 

  • Be spontaneous

Another way to recreate the honeymoon phase in your relationship is to be spontaneous. After being together for a while, couples tend to get into a routine. They do the same things every day and know what to expect from each other. 

To keep things exciting, try being spontaneous and doing something new every now and then. It doesn’t have to be anything big; it can be as simple as taking a different route to work or trying a new restaurant for dinner. The element of surprise will help keep the spark alive in your relationship. 

  • Make time for each other.

In the early stages of a relationship, couples usually can’t get enough of each other. They want to spend every waking minute together. But as time goes by, work, family, and other commitments start to take up more and more of their time. 

One way to recreate the honeymoon phase in your relationship is to make time for each other again. Set aside some quality time every week where you can just focus on each other. 

This can be anything from going for a walk together to planning a weekend getaway. The important thing is that you’re spending time together with no distractions.

  • Do something new together.

Couples often find that their relationships become stagnant after a while. One way to avoid this is to do something new together. This can be anything from taking a dance class together to going on a road trip. 

Doing something new will help bring back the excitement and adventure you felt in your relationship’s early stages. It’ll also give you both something to bond over and new memories to cherish. 

  • Appreciate each other more

It’s easy to take your partner for granted after being together for a while. But showing appreciation for each other is key to keeping the spark alive in your relationship. 

Make an effort to show your partner how much you appreciate them. Compliment them, do something nice for them, or just tell them how lucky you feel to be with them. This will help make your partner feel loved and appreciated, making them more likely to reciprocate. 

  • Be supportive of each other.

Being there for your partner when they need you is important in any relationship. But as time goes by, couples often start to take each other for granted. If you want to recreate the honeymoon phase in your relationship, start being more supportive of each other again. 

Be there for your partner when they’re having a tough day or going through a difficult time. Listen to them, offer your advice and support, and just be there for them. This will help bring back the feeling of being in a team you had in your relationship’s early days. 

  • Have realistic expectations

One of the main reasons why the honeymoon phase ends is because couples have unrealistic expectations of each other. They expect their partner to always be happy, to always agree with them, and to never make any mistakes. 

If you want to recreate the honeymoon phase in your relationship, start by having realistic expectations of each other. Accept that your partner is human and that they’re not perfect. This will help you be more understanding and forgiving of each other, which is essential for any happy and successful relationship.

Final Thoughts

The honeymoon phase is an important part of any relationship. It’s the time when we’re head-over-heels in love with our partner, and everything feels perfect. But unfortunately, the honeymoon phase doesn’t last forever. 

If you want to keep the spark alive in your relationship, it’s important to work at it. Try doing things that you enjoyed doing in the early days of your relationship. Be more spontaneous, make time for each other, and show your appreciation for each other. This will help you keep the honeymoon phase alive in your relationship for as long as possible.

You can find these tips and more ways to recreate the honeymoon phase in your relationship in our free ‘7 Days To A More Passionate Love’ Ebook. It will help you restore your relationship’s passion, intimacy, and connection and make it even better than before. Check it out today!

Do you have any tips on recreating the honeymoon phase in your relationship? Share them with us in the comments below!

About the Author

Fiona Leeworthy

Fiona is a Counsellor & Family Therapist (MCouns, GradDip Psycho, AdvDipFamTherapy and her husband Rick is a businessman, speaker and mentor. Together they share a passion to help couples build strong & healthy relationships in the midst of a busy life.

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