How To Really Love My Wife In A Fast-Paced World

Love My Wife

In this fast-paced world, it can be easy to get caught up in our busy schedules and forget the important things in life. It’s so easy to let those little things slip through the cracks, but in doing so, we are missing out on opportunities to appreciate and love those that mean the most to us. If you’re feeling like you’re having an issue showing your wife the love she deserves, here are some tips to help guide you in loving your wife:

 

Be Present With Each Other When Together

Similar to the title, one of the most important things you can do for your wife is to show her that you are present with her when you are together. This doesn’t mean sitting next to each other on the couch with big smiles and hearts in your eyes – it means being genuinely interested in what she has to say. It means giving her your full attention when talking and not letting your mind wander to other things. It means being engaged in conversation and enjoying each other’s company. If you can be present with your wife when together, it will show her that she is a priority in your life and that you truly care about her.

 

For example, if you’ve had a long day at work and come home feeling tired, put your phone on silent, sit down with her at the dinner table and have a conversation about your respective days. Be open to talking about what’s going on in her life – don’t just wait for her to ask you questions; instead, actively listen to the things that are happening in her life. This doesn’t mean that you need to converse about everything that’s going on in her life or your life – but show interest and be interested.

 

Schedule Time To Be Together

It can be easy to get caught up in our daily tasks and responsibilities in the fast-paced world we live in. In order to show your wife that she’s a priority in your life, you need to make sure that there is time in each day set aside for quality time together. This can mean going out on dates, watching movies together, cooking meals together, walking the dog together – whatever it is that you and your wife enjoy doing. By setting aside this time for each other, you’re showing her that she’s a priority in your life.

 

If you are having a hard time remembering to schedule this time together or if you’re finding that it keeps getting pushed back day after day, try setting a daily or weekly reminder on your phone. This way, you won’t be able to forget, and it will help ensure that you’re making time for each other. For example, you could set a daily reminder for 5.30 pm to talk to your wife when you get home and ask her how her day was. Or, you could set a weekly reminder for Saturday mornings to go on a date together. Whatever it is, make sure that it’s something that you’ll be able to stick to.

 

Use Social Media And Texting To Stay Connected

While it can be easy to forget the little things, people are often more likely to dedicate their time to social media or texting than they would be if they were simply talking face-to-face. So if you’re struggling to love your wife in a way that she feels it, make her a priority in your life, try using these methods of communication as a way to stay connected and show her that she’s on your mind.

 

For example, you could send her a text in the middle of the day letting her know that you’re thinking of her. Or, you could post a picture of the two of you on social media with a caption about how much you love her. You can even tag her in a video on social media that reminds you of her. Whatever it is, make sure that it’s something that shows her that she’s on your mind.

 

Be Ready To Support Her

While one of the main reasons you fell in love with your wife was because she had her own interests and passions, it’s essential that you support her in those areas. By being there for her when she needs help or when she wants to do something, you’re showing her that she is a priority in your life.

 

For example, if she’s working on a project or needs some help with something, be there for her. Don’t let your work get in the way of being supportive of what she wants to do. Also, if she has an interest in something that you don’t understand or enjoy, try to make an effort to learn more about it. The last thing she wants is for you to be disinterested in the things that are important to her.

 

Make An Effort To Be Intimate

One of the most important aspects of a relationship is intimacy. Whether physical or emotional, being intimate with your wife is crucial in showing her that she is loved and desirable to you. If you’re not making an effort to be intimate with her, she may feel like you’re not interested in her or that she’s not a priority in your life.

 

So, make an effort to be intimate with your wife on a regular basis. Whatever it is, make sure that you’re doing it to be close to her and show her how much you care about her.

 

Learn Her Love Language

Do you know what your wife’s love language is? If not, it’s time to learn. Everyone expresses and receives love differently. So, it’s important that you know how your wife likes to receive love. This way, you can make sure that you’re showing her love in a way that she’ll understand and appreciate.

 

There are five main love languages: words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, spending quality time together, and physical touch. Take some time to learn your wife’s love language so that you can make her feel like she is a loved and a priority in your life.

 

For example, if her love language is acts of service, make sure you do things for her that she doesn’t have time for. Or, if her love language is physical touch, make sure that you’re being affectionate with her and showing her how much you care about her.

 

Make Regular Time Together Feel Special

Just because you’re married doesn’t mean that date night has to end. In fact, it’s important to make an effort to make regular time together feel special. This way, your wife will know that she is still your girl and that you still care about spending time with her.

 

One way to make regular time together feel special is to do something that she loves. For example, if she loves fine food, make reservations at her favourite restaurant. Or, if she loves going on walks, plan a special route that you know she’ll love. Whatever it is, make sure that it’s something that will make her feel loved and appreciated.

 

Don’t Forget To Say “I Love You”

Saying “I love you” might seem like a simple act, but it’s something that your wife needs to hear on a regular basis. By verbally expressing your feelings for her, you’re showing her that she is important and that she matters to you. So, make sure that you’re saying those three little words often and meaning them each time that you do.

 

For example, you might say “I love you” before leaving for work in the morning or when you’re getting ready for bed at night. You can also say it whenever she does something nice for you, whether it’s making dinner or just doing a small act of kindness. Showing your affection and admiration through your words is a great way to show your wife how much you love her.

 

Final Thoughts

If you want to show your wife that she’s a priority in your life, it’s important to make an effort in your relationship. By doing things like being supportive, being intimate, and making regular time together feel special, you’re showing her that she is a priority in your life and loving your wife properly. So, don’t forget to make your wife a priority and do what you can to show her how much you care about her!

 

If you want some more tips on how to keep loving my wife the right way, download the Spark app available at Unbreakable Love. It’s packed with fun games, quizzes and challenges to keep the spark alive in your relationship.

 

 

 

About the Author

Fiona Leeworthy

Fiona is a Counsellor & Family Therapist (MCouns, GradDip Psycho, AdvDipFamTherapy and her husband Rick is a businessman, speaker and mentor. Together they share a passion to help couples build strong & healthy relationships in the midst of a busy life.

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