Why Sex Is Such An Important Part Of Loving Your Husband

Loving Your Husband

It’s no secret that sex is an integral part of any relationship. After all, it’s one of the ways that couples can connect and feel close to each other. However, sometimes people forget just how important sex is, especially after they’ve been married for a while.


In order to keep the spark alive in your marriage, it’s important to work on your sex life by making it an essential part of your relationship. Not only is it a great way of loving your husband, but it will help to grow your intimate connection, resulting in a stronger relationship. In this article, we’ll dive into why sex is such an essential part of loving your husband.


Sex Connects You As A Couple Like Nothing Else

Sex plays a vital role in connecting couples and fostering intimacy. Through engaging in intimacy, partners can deepen their connection and explore each other’s desires and needs. Sex also helps to foster trust and build emotional bonds, allowing couples to feel safe and comfortable sharing their innermost thoughts and feelings.


And given that sex requires significant physical exertion and mental focus, it requires full presence and attention from both partners, allowing them to devote themselves to one another fully. Ultimately, sex connects couples like nothing else can, making it one of the most powerful tools for building a strong, healthy relationship.


While it’s important to cultivate other parts of your relationship, such as your emotional connection, connecting through sex is the great way to feel connected to your partner, leaving you glowing for days.


We Live In A Highly Sexual World

In today’s world, sexual images and messages are everywhere. From advertising and movies to music and social media, it’s hard to avoid the constant bombardment of sexualized content. This also means that your husband is constantly exposed to this type of content, which means that sex is definitely on his mind.


So what does this mean for you and your relationship? Well, first of all, it’s important to remember that you don’t have to feel pressured to engage in sexual activity just because it’s everywhere. But to ignore that essential part of a healthy marriage is a great loss and often can be an open door to temptation outside the relationship. Sex is a powerful gift to a marriage and a great way to deepen your connection with your partner. Not only will it add an extra level of intimacy, but it can also help to keep things fresh and exciting.


Men Are Very Visual

Despite what you might think, studies have shown that men are very visual individuals. In fact, they are far more visual than women. This means that when it comes to your husband, the way that you look is important. That doesn’t mean that you always have to look perfect for them, but because they are visual it’s nice to dress up for them occasionally and present well.


Being visually stimulated is a gift when a man is admiring his wife, but it can also be a curse if pornography is introduced into the marriage. Pornography is highly destructive to a relationship, often leaving men with distinct visual images that can be carried all the way through their life, sabotaging expectations of women and the gift of sex.


Most Men Have High Sexual Drives

A man’s sexual drive is often a significant part of his identity. When a man feels that his sexual advances are constantly being rejected, it can damage his self-esteem and make him feel unwanted. In some cases, this can lead to relationship problems or even loneliness and depression.


If a woman is not interested in sex, it’s important to communicate this in a way that doesn’t make her partner feel rejected. It’s also important to remember that every person is different, and not every man has a high sex drive. Some men may be perfectly content with a lower level of sexual activity. The key is finding what works for both partners and communicating openly and honestly about needs and desires.


How To Have A Better Sexual Relationship With Your Husband

Now that you understand why it’s important to make sex a regular part of your relationship and why it’s key to loving your husband, you might be wondering how you can improve your sexual relationship. There are many simple ways to turn up the dial on your sex life.


Communication Is Key

Communication is one of the most important aspects of any relationship, and this is certainly true when the topic is about sex. In order to ensure that your sex life remains healthy and exciting, it is crucial to be open and honest with your partner about your desires and needs.


This can help you discover new activities or positions that might heighten the pleasure, or it can allow you to identify any concerns that you might have about your sex life. Additionally, clear communication can help promote more satisfying experiences simply by reducing stress and anxiety around your intimacy. With regular communication, you and your partner will surely enjoy a better sex life together.


Focus On The Positives

A happy and healthy sex life requires a positive outlook and mindset from both partners. Too often, people focus on the negatives in their sex life instead of the positives. This can lead to feelings of dissatisfaction, which can, in turn, lead to even more negative focus. It is important to remember that a sexual relationship is an ever-evolving process. There will sex that feels hot and steamy, and sex that you just need to have now for the good of the relationship. You cannot separate sex from the whole of your relationship. It’s an overflow of a loving relationship. Instead of separating it from everything else and dwelling on the negatives, try to focus on the positives and what you love about the whole process.


What are the things that you enjoy about your sex life? What are the things that you would like to change? When you take a positive, proactive approach to sex, you are more likely to feel satisfied with the results. In addition, you may find that your partner is more receptive to trying new things when you approach sex with a positive attitude. So next time you’re feeling down about your sex life, try to focus on the positives and see where it takes you. You may be surprised by the results.


Increase The Amount Of Foreplay

There is no doubt that a satisfying sexual relationship requires ample amounts of foreplay. This important aspect of intimacy serves to drive arousal levels and enhance physical pleasure, creating an overall better sexual experience for both partners. Unfortunately, many couples tend to bypass foreplay and focus only on the orgasm, which can ultimately leave one partner feeling dissatisfied or unfulfilled.


To address this issue, we need to encourage couples to make time for more foreplay. Ideally, foreplay starts outside the bedroom as you love and connect with your partner in healthy communication and affection. But it also could mean taking turns initiating sexual activity on a regular basis, setting aside time exclusively for intimate interactions, which will build sensual desire and excitement. Ultimately, whatever strategies couples choose to try they should aim to increase the amount of attention that is given to intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. By doing so, we can help ensure that each and every romantic encounter is as satisfying as it can possibly be.


Experiment With Different Positions And Styles

It’s important to experiment with different positions and styles in order to find out what works best for you and your partner. Different people have different preferences, so there’s no single “right” way to have sex. However, there are some general tips that can help you spice up your sex life and add variety.


For example, try changing up the usual missionary position by adding a pillow under your partner’s hips. This will change the angle of penetration and could lead to more pleasurable sensations. You can also experiment with different forms of stimulation. By trying new things, you and your partner can explore your sexuality and figure out what gets you both hot and bothered. So go ahead and get creative in the bedroom- you might be surprised at how much fun you have.


Schedule In Time For Sex

When it comes to having a healthy and enjoyable sex life, it is essential to make time for sex on a regular basis. It’s a known fact – the more you have sex, the more you will want it! By scheduling specific times for intimacy, couples can ensure that their physical and emotional connection does not suffer.


With some planning and commitment, however, couples can find plenty of ways to make time for each other and keep their love life thriving. Whether it means engaging sexually when you first wake up or setting aside an entire evening once or twice a week, prioritizing sex will help couples stay connected and enjoy all the benefits of a healthy sexual relationship. So if better sex is one of your resolutions for the new year, don’t forget to schedule some time just for you!


Initiate The Experience

When it comes to sex, it is often said that “the more you put in, the more you get out.” In other words, if you want to have a great sexual relationship with your partner, you need to be willing to invest time and effort into the relationship. This doesn’t mean that you need to be having sex all the time, but it does mean that you need to be open to getting closer and more intimately connected.


Initiating sex can just be the overflow of a great afternoon together that leads to initiating sex just to top the day off nicely. It doesn’t always have to be in the bedroom, or in a certain way. Get creative and do things that create a new experience or memory. Pull a mattress out in front of the fire and make love, or camp out in the backyard for the night and enjoy passionate sex together with candles. By being adventurous and spontaneous you can keep your sex life fresh and exciting and ensure that both you and your partner are always enjoying yourselves.



Sex is an essential part of loving your husband. However, in order to create and strengthen your sexual relationship, it requires communication, mutual respect, and a willingness to experiment. By communicating with your partner and being respectful of their needs, you can create a sexual relationship that is satisfying for both of you and that overflows from a love that you both share. By being willing to experiment, you can keep your sex life exciting and fresh. If you want to learn more, please visit Unbreakable Love for more resources on loving your husband.





About the Author

Fiona Leeworthy

Fiona is a Counsellor & Family Therapist (MCouns, GradDip Psycho, AdvDipFamTherapy and her husband Rick is a businessman, speaker and mentor. Together they share a passion to help couples build strong & healthy relationships in the midst of a busy life.

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